I don't think I'm paranoid, but people just don't like me. I mean, really. Is there anybody out there who feels this way? Look, you know you are not a troublemakeer, you're friendly and polite, and you treat everyone with respect. Okay, so the guy cuts you off on the interstate. But, you won't ever see him again. However, with regards to people like your inlaws, co-workers, your sister's boyfriend, that woman in your church, people that you're going to run into one way or another, and you don't really want to. If you are having a hard time trying to figure out what you did to these people, stop stressing out. You have done nothing to anyone. They just don't like you. What else could it be?
When you first started your job were you really welcomed with opened arms by your soon-to-be co-workers? Probably not. It's just the way people are, and there's nothing you can do about it. But if it is causing you to feel sad and worthless and you are feeling that you are not part of this world, be part of this blog and let us share your pain if no one else willing to listen. Many of us have been there and want to speak our piece.